| Becoming a member of a greek organization is
                                             a fulfilling yet challenging aspect of college life.  This experience, however, is not intended for everyone.  Below
                                             are a few questions that should be pondered when making your decision.   What is a Sorority? 
                                             A sorority is defined as a women's student organization
                                             that is
                                             formed chiefly for service and/or social purposes.
                                             However, it offers much more than just membership. 
                                             A sorority provides academic enhancement, friendship, development of leadership skills and the opportunity to serve the community. As a national organization, a sorority generates personal and professional growth through networking and participating in other activites well beyond your college years.
                                              
                                             
                                             Why do you want to belong to a Sorority?
                                             This is a question that needs to be taken SERIOUSLY
                                             and should be well
                                             thought out and answered honestly. Is there any
                                             one right answer?
                                             Definitely not, it should be a sincere answer from
                                             the heart.
                                              
                                             
                                             How do you know which is right for you?
                                             DO YOUR RESEARCH!!! Being a part of a sorority is a life-time commitment. You need to know what you are getting into.  You would not start a new job without finding
                                             out all the details, right?  So why not
                                             do the same when
                                             trying to decide on a sorority. 
                                              
                                             
                                             Should you make your interest known early?
                                             Note:  This question is going to be
                                             answered from a Sigma Gamma Rho perspective. 
                                             How are you going to become a part of this organization
                                             unless you let
                                             us know that you are interested.  The key is
                                             to go about it
                                             in a professional and discreet manner. Do not be
                                             pushy,  just be yourself
                                             and let us know that you would like additional information
                                             on the
                                             sorority. It is ok for us to know you are interested,
                                             but you do not have to let the entire world know! 
                                             Also remember,
                                             just because you may have family and or friends
                                             who are a part
                                             of this organization, WILL NOT guarantee membership,
                                             therefore sucking up is a waste of time and a huge
                                             turn off!!
                                              
                                             
                                             How do you meet the members of
                                             the sorority you wish to belong to?
                                             Nothing works better than to get out and about on
                                             the campus.
                                             Most Greeks are "VERY ACTIVE" on the yard. They
                                             are in other
                                             organizations, ie. RA's, tutors, band and choir
                                             members, student gov't members, etc. You are bound to encounter someone who is apart of the sorority you wish to belong to. Specifically for us, if you see us on the yard, speak and say hello.  Also, come to our events and activities.  If you only come to
                                             the Interest Meeting, you have not given
                                             us the chance to get to know you and decide
                                             if we want to invite you into our family.
                                              
                                             What is the sorority looking for in a member?
                                             
                                             Well the answer to this could be a number of things,
                                             but for the most part
                                             someone who is going to be dedicated, focused
                                             and well rounded. If you are not, then at least be willing
                                             to be the best person you can be.  It is
                                             often said that once you join a sorority you are
                                             buying friends,
                                             but the truth is you are building a bond of life
                                             long friendships and
                                             experiences that will be with you forever,
                                             in most cases .  We all were founded by strong,
                                             focused women.  Imagine being involved in something
                                             that may be as old as your grandmother or even your
                                             great-grandmother. The bottom line is just like in life,
                                             Greek life is what YOU make of it. One thing we do stress
                                             is, please keep your reputation intact.
                                             A horrible reputation can follow you forever!!  Remember once you are a member of any organization you represent all of its members and in turn, they represent you.
                                              
                                             What if you do not have the grades
                                             
                                             to become a member of a sorority?
                                             Well that's easy, WORK ON THEM!!  Not just
                                             to become a member of a
                                             sorority, but for yourself. Your education is MOST
                                             IMPORTANT.
                                             That is why you are in college in the first place,
                                             at least that should be your reason.  
                                              
                                             Did you ever wonder why you may have been
                                             
                                             rejected from a particular sorority, even
                                             though you had the minimum GPA?
                                             Just because you have the 2.5 (or whatever is required)
                                             does not
                                             mean that you will definitely be asked to become
                                             a member.
                                             You are probably not the only person applying for
                                             membership.
                                             Just like in the job world, you need to make
                                             yourself stand out.  Positive things like community service and talents also mean a lot.  Basically speaking, you should have
                                             something to bring to the table.  
                                              
                                             "I want to step, do the call and be popular!"
                                             
                                             If this has ever come out of your
                                             mouth, you are DEFINITELY not
                                             ready to become greek. Being a member of a sorority
                                             is not just
                                             about the colors, stepping and the call. It is about
                                             uplifting
                                             yourself and the community. A lot of people do not
                                             realize how
                                             much Greeks actually do within the community and
                                             on the college
                                             campus! Three letters across your chest is not going
                                             to make you
                                             any more or less attractive.  If you were lame
                                             before,
                                             then chances are, you still will be. If  it
                                             does change others opinion
                                             about you, then they probably are not your real
                                             friends in the first place.
                                              
                                              
                                             Finally, do not let anyone else dictate your actions.  You must learn to BE YOURSELF
                                             to go anywhere.  
                                              
                                             
                                             Sigma Gamma Rho = Work + Responsibility + Respectability +EDUCATIONDo
                                             You Have What It Takes?
 
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